Raccoons, Possums, and Bats, Oh My!

The town that I live in has two different sections of town. One is newer with the grocery stores and box stores that most are familiar with. The area that I live in is part of the original town center. It is currently being revitalized and I love walking around and seeing this area get new life while still retaining its original charm and character.

I’ve always had an appreciation for older things, it’s probably why I’ve ended up with most of the family furniture (think grandparents’ upright piano, great-aunt’s hutch, parent’s kitchen table, etc.). That’s probably why I’ve ended up in this part of town and with an 80-year-old bungalow.

My goal with my house is to make it a home where friends and family can find rest and restoration. I want to be a good steward of this home and property. Obviously, there’s a lot to learn with home ownership. If I’m honest, animal interactions were not on my radar when I bought this home last August! So, here’s the humorous renditions of my interactions with the local wildlife and what I’ve learned. Yes, I’ve named most of these animals. It’s how I’ve made them a little less overwhelming. 🙂

Ivan the Mouse – He first made his presence known last November. I realized he’d been my attic neighbor when he decided to come and visit the main level. He has since moved to the country to live with his cousins. That’s what I choose to believe as I’ve not seen or heard from him since December after my pest guys visited his home in the attic.

In previous campus housing, I’d dealt with squirrels and lizards, but never mice so I wasn’t sure if this was an appropriate friend conversation or not. I learned that this is totally normal to discuss with friends and I actually was able to get great advice about how to rehouse Ivan and it made it less of an overwhelming situation for me.

Raccoon – I actually haven’t given him a name, so you’re welcome to give me your suggestions. One Sunday night in the beginning of March, I heard some scurrying above my den. I went outside to look, but couldn’t see anything even though I could still hear scurrying when inside. About five minutes later, I heard a loud thump on my back deck as if something had fallen off my roof. So I grabbed my putter and went outside to see what I could find. Again, I didn’t see anything, but no longer heard any scurrying, so I peacefully went to bed.

The next morning the Lord prompted me to go look on the side of the house where I’d heard most of the noise the night before. It was then that I saw shingles on the ground and saw that several shingles had been ripped off my roof! After talking with various people, I believe it was most likely a raccoon. I found a roofer who was able to fix my roof the next day (Tuesday). On Saturday morning, I was working in the yard and happened to look up and noticed that two of the shingles (that were previously fixed) were bent up into a tent shape. I called my roofer who again came out and fixed my roof.

Thus began the adventure of trying to catch the raccoon in order to keep him from damaging my roof again. I learned that having a great local home insurance guy is very helpful. He gave me the recommendation for the roofer and told me that anytime I had home issues, to let him know as he might have a connection.

The Four Cats – I didn’t name these guys either as my interactions were pretty limited. Because of trying to catch the raccoon, I rented a humane raccoon trap from Animal Control. Their suggestion for bait was wet cat food. Thus, you understand how I came in contact with these four cats. Don’t worry, they got a free meal and I let them go immediately when I found them in the trap as Animal Control didn’t have space for them. Thankfully, each cat didn’t return after they got stuck in the trap. Though getting some of them to leave the trap and then my yard was its own adventure! I learned that reaching out to Animal Control can be a great resource. They let me rent the trap for half the cost of buying a trap and taught me how to use it.

Marshmallow and Charm the Possums – Because I was tired of catching cats, I switched to using marshmallows as bait as I’d heard from multiple sources that raccoons like marshmallows as well. To my surprise, I caught two possums on two different nights. The first one, Marshmallow (named after the food she’d eaten), was tiny and calm when I found her. She was just relaxing after her midnight snack. Charm (named for Lucky Charm’s marshmallows) was anything but charming. He was hissing at me and very unhappy that I didn’t let him go after his midnight snack. Thankfully, Animal Control came both mornings and relocated them to the same area near a pond a couple miles away from my house.

I learned that Animal Control has a couple places where they rehome wildlife outside of town. As I had no idea where to take the Possums (or any other wildlife on my property), it was a great relief to have them handle this part! Plus, I didn’t want to get anywhere close to Charm and his frustrated hissing!

Alfred the Bat – In the midst of my trapping adventures (never did catch the raccoon), I discovered a bat hanging off my roof one afternoon in the middle of March. After about a week-and-a-half of him hanging out there all hours of the day and night, it was decided that he probably needed some help. At one point, I found him lying face down in the dirt and thought he was dead. Next morning I discovered he’d resurrected himself and was back up on my dormer. Thus began my journey of trying to find someone who could help Alfred (yes, I named him after Batman’s butler).

After various phone calls, I discovered that there was a woman who rehabilitates bats about 30 minutes from my house. She didn’t have anyway to get him down, but said if he ended up on the ground again that I could bring him to her.

A few days later I saw him fall while I was out in the yard. I immediately called the rehabber and a couple of environmental friends and got their suggestions on how to safely get him into a container so that I could transport him. After some finagling (and maybe some yelling) I was able to get Alfred safely (for him and me) into a disposable 9×9 foil container with lid and transported up to the rehabber. I later found out that Alfred passed away four days after I dropped him off. The rehabber believes he was old as everything else health wise checked out for him.

I learned that there are people out there that are very gifted with animals and that I am not one of them. 🙂 I also learned that I could catch a bat and transport him. Something I don’t plan to do again. If you don’t believe that I did this, I’ll put the pictures of Alfred in my 9×9 container at the bottom of the blog. I actually have pictures of the possums too and will gladly share if you ask.

Needless to say, it’s been a long four months (and March was its own “cat”astrophic experience) with my local wildlife! Recently, I’ve only seen Furry (named by my friend’s six-year-old) the neighbor’s squirrel who likes visiting my trees, Red and Ruddy the Robins who love hanging out on my front porch, and the various cardinals, blue jays, and other birds that have made their presence known. 🙂 I’ve been enjoying these visitors as they’ve been leaving my house alone.

I hope my stories have made you smile and maybe even given you some insights on how to handle your own animal adventures. As I was writing this blog, I was reminded of Psalm 24:1, “A Psalm of David. The earth is the Lord’s and the fullness thereof, the world and those who dwell therein.” May I realize that I am called to multiple areas of good stewardship including the animals that I interact with on my property. May I not have a narrow view of stewardship and may the local wildlife not be destructive to my home! 🙂

Stopping Short

I drive 25 minutes to work every day. My previous commute was a seven-minute walk, which was lovely. Having done this drive now for almost two years, I’m coming to appreciate the time in my car.

I utilize these daily 50 minutes in various ways. I listen to podcasts. I talk with my mom. I talk with siblings and friends. I listen to worship music. Sometimes I even drive in silence. In these moments of silence, I’m learning to listen for the Lord.

I’m not a gardener, but in the past the Lord has talked to me in gardening terms. Now that I work in the transportation engineering field, He seems to be talking to me in road terminology as is evident by my last blog post and this blog.

Honestly, before working in transportation I didn’t pay much attention to roads or the designthat had to go into them. Acceleration lanes, specifically, were not on my radar until last week. What exactly is an acceleration lane?

A speed change area or lane consisting of added pavement at the edge of through traffic lanes to permit vehicles to accelerate before merging with the through-traffic flow.

Merriam-Webster Dictionary

If you drive on the interstate at all, you have driven on one of these and know them as entrance ramps. Below is a figure from FHWA’s Manual of Uniform Traffic Control devices, and shows two examples of acceleration lanes, just in case you are visual like me. 🙂

I noticed one morning during my commute that drivers will often slow down at the beginning of the acceleration ramp to try and merge sooner onto the interstate. I’m guilty of this myself as the stress of merging causes me to focus only on merging. What I didn’t realize is that I was slowing down all the drivers behind me as I was blocking them from getting to the part of the lane that allows them to merge. I also discovered that by stopping short in this lane I wasn’t using the ramp the way it was created to be used and was hindering my ability to merge well.

This got me thinking about my relationship with the Lord and the life He has called me to. How often do I stop short in life? How often do I not “merge” well in areas of my life because I’m only focused on the detail in front of me? How often does my stopping short cause difficulty for others? As I ponder my own places of stopping short, I’m reminded that life with the Lord is an on-going journey of learning and growing.

Let the wise hear and increase in learning, and the one who understands obtain guidance.

Proverbs 1:5

Rain, Ice, and Sun

The weather this January has been very odd. I’ve been hearing that sentiment a lot lately from friends all around the US. Having lived in Connecticut, Arkansas, Missouri, and Colorado I know weather is weather and you just have to roll with it, but January has been one for the books.

  • January 11 I woke up around midnight hearing the tornado sirens. Yes, I hung out in my bathroom for about 45 minutes until the all clear was given and thankfully, no tornadoes actually touched down.
  • January 14-19 we had snow on the ground. The few times that we do get snow, it typically lasts only a day or two, so the five days of snow was a fun surprise (as long as my pipes didn’t freeze and the power stayed on).
  • January 22 ice fell for the morning, but it didn’t stick around long as our temperatures finally made it up to 32 degrees (the first time since before January 13).
  • January 24 we had flooding from all the snow, ice, and rain that fell January 11 – 24.

I work at an engineering firm in transportation. I have enjoyed learning all about this new field and working to serve the community that I live in. So what does transportation engineering and the weather have to do with each other? Potholes.

Because of all the crazy weather and the stress that it puts on our roads, we’ve had the perennial potholes open up on our highways. Some are small and can easily be avoided while others are rather large and can cause significant damage to a vehicle if hit. Below is a graphic that explains how potholes are formed.

The UK’s Daily Mail, 2013

With all this talk of potholes in our area and all the work to fix them it’s gotten me thinking about spiritual potholes. What am I letting “seep” into my heart and mind? What are the stressors (freezing temps, sun, or weight of traffic) that are bringing pressure to my life? I can’t always foresee where potholes are going to open up in my life, but I can mitigate their damage by following similar steps for protecting roads from potholes.

Regularly assess the road for areas of possible weakness – “Let us examine our ways and test them, and let us return to the Lord.” Lamentations 3:40

Take quick action when a pothole appears – “I hasten and do not delay to keep your commandments.” Psalm 119:60

Repair it well (not just the quick fix) – “And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.” Colossians 3:17

Theo

Meet my mom’s new dog. He unexpectedly became a part of our family a few months back. He was a little over a year old and my mom agreed to foster him for a few days. A few hours into his stay, I could already see my mom falling in love with him. 🙂

He’s one of the sweetest, well-trained dogs I’ve ever met. He starts falling asleep on the couch next to my mom around 8 pm each night and doesn’t usually wake up until 8 or 9 am the next morning. Theodore was the name his first family gave him and Mom decided to keep it as it means, “Gift of God,” and that is exactly how she views him.

If you’ve read my blog over the last year or two you know that my family has gone through a lot of loss. Three of these loses were our dogs. Two of the dogs were mine, but lived at my mom’s as I mainly worked in residential higher ed and pets weren’t allowed in housing. My parents always had dogs, so the last few months without a dog felt odd. So, I wasn’t surprised that Mom and Theo have become fast friends. 🙂

Theo loves snuggling, loves the blanket he sleeps with, loves running as fast as he can across the back yard, loves my mom to pieces, is joyful, and gets excited when he sees me. What more could you ask for in a cute little puppy? God knew what He was doing when He created Theo and gifted him to my mom.

Here’s a few of my favorite pictures of Theo and the joy he brings to our lives.

Memory Lane VII

December 14 was the nine-year anniversary of starting this blog. It doesn’t seem possible that it has been that long! Nine years and 108 blog posts later, I love seeing my history and God’s love and grace memorialized in these blogs. Every year, I write a blog highlighting some of my favorites over the years and add the ones that I love from the current year! Enjoy the journey down memory lane and may your 2024 be filled with His presence and joy!

Home

I’ve officially moved in! Things are functionally set up, but still in a little chaos. If I’m honest with myself, it will probably be that way for a little while. It’s been nice opening my storage bins that I haven’t seen in about a year and a half and discovering what each one holds.

One of the sweetest moments that I’ve had in the house so far is a Home Blessing. Soon after I bought my house, I found out that my church holds Home Blessings. I quickly set about scheduling one the week before I moved in. One of my pastors graciously agreed to hold the blessing. This was a precious time of praying with family and friends and giving this home to the Lord. We prayed for the Lord’s protection, presence, and joy to fill each room. I was so grateful for all the family and friends who were able to join in this time of blessing.

Every Moment Holy has three volumes containing prayers and blessings. I have loved these books for years and am so thankful to have all my volumes in one spot again. Below are selected lines of a prayer from the first volume that is very applicable and I am trying to regularly pray.

Moving Into a New Home
…We thank you for this our new home and we welcome you here.
Dwell with us in this place, O Lord…
Be present as we rise in the morning and lie down at night…
May your Spirit inhabit this home, making of it a sanctuary where hearts and lives are knit together…
May this our home be a harbor of anchorage and refuge, and a haven from which we journey forth…
May this our home be a place of knowing and of being known, a place of shared tears and laughter;
a place where forgiveness is easily asked and granted, and wounds are quickly healed;
a place of meaningful conversation, of words not left unsaid…

Every Moment Holy – Volume I

Ordinary Time

I’m a part of a class at my church and we discussed the Church calendar a few weeks ago. I even got a color coordinated diagram of all the different seasons (which I’m happy to share if you’d like).

The Church year observes six seasons starting in December. It adjusts slightly each year, but roughly runs the below schedule.

  • Advent – December
  • Christmas – December & January
  • Epiphany and the season of ordinary time – January & February
  • Lent – February, March, & April
  • Easter – April & May
  • Pentecost and the season of ordinary time – May, June, July, August, September, October, November, & December

I enjoy different things about each of these seasons. Based on this calendar, we are in the middle of “Pentecost and the season of ordinary time.” I love this idea of ordinary time – time where I’m not running around, but able to simple enjoy life and time with the Lord. Considering that the bulk of the Church calendar is the “season of ordinary days” I think there’s value in them. Psalm 90 verses 12 and 14 come to mind.

So teach us to number our days that we may get a heart of wisdom.

Psalm 90:12

Satisfy us in the morning with your steadfast love , that we may rejoice and be glad all our days.

Psalm 90:14

There’s simplicity and slowness in these verses; a routine and a rhythm to life on earth and relationship with the Lord. My hope in understanding the Church calendar more is that I invest well in each of the seasons that the Lord has in a year. May these “ordinary” days leading up to Advent be filled with His presence and a growing longing for me to be in His presence.

It’s the sunlight through the curtains
Morning pushing back the night
It’s your faces in the kitchen
Little moons of borrowed light

On your tiptoes always reaching
For something bigger than you are
It’s holding you and knowing
That I’ve caught a shooting star

I know it won’t always be like this
Eyes are open, I don’t wanna miss

These ordinary days
These ordinary days
In a million little ways
You make me wanna stay
In these ordinary days

It’s the way you feel the music
Spinning like the falling leaves
You are poetry in motion
And you want to dance with me

I know it won’t always be like this
Eyes are open, I don’t wanna miss

These ordinary days
These ordinary days
In a million little ways
You make me wanna stay
In these ordinary days

Oh, the days are moving slowly
But the years go by so fast
Let me linger in these moments
Before they turn into the past
How I want to make them last

These ordinary days
These ordinary days
In a million little ways
You make me wanna stay
In these ordinary days

These ordinary days
In a million little ways
You make me wanna stay
In these ordinary days
In a million little ways
You make me wanna stay
In these ordinary days

Ordinary Days – JJ Heller

Floors are Fixable

Over the years, I’ve realized that I struggle with anxiety at times. Thankfully, my dad and my mom worked with me from a young age on overcoming anxiety with the help of the Lord. We even chose Philippians 4:6-7 as my confirmation verse.

Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made know to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

Philippians 4:6-7

As with any struggle, it rears its head at different times and my new home ownership has been no exception. I have not moved in yet as I’m having a few things worked on and figured they would be easier to do without all of my stuff inside. I also had an unexpected floor issue, that threw me for a loop. I was talking with my mom about all the huge unknowns and my mom said, “Floors are fixable.” That phrase has stuck with me throughout this journey and Philippians 4 has been rolling around in my head too. So this is what I’ve been focusing on.

Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice.

Philippians 4:4

Regardless of my circumstances, fears, or anxiety, I am to rejoice in the Lord. Doubly so.

Let your reasonableness be know to everyone. The Lord is at hand;

Philippians 4:5

God is in the midst of all of my home adventures. He isn’t just aware of what is happening in my life, He is fully present.

Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.

Philippians 4:6

God is big enough to handle anything. Yes, I have been singing the Veggie Tales song, “God is Bigger than the Boogie Man.” I can be in conversation with the Lord about what is causing me anxiety, but I must include thankfulness as seasoning to my conversations. It helps shift my perspective from what is stressing me out and back onto who He is and what He has already done.

And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

Philippians 4:7

Only God can provide the peace that I long for with every part of my being. For me, this is what abiding looks like. When I can curl up and feel His presence surrounding me and overwhelming all my fears and anxiety. Often times I have to regularly battle back to that place, but the journey is getting shorter the more often I take this path. It also helps to meditate on a verse that comes 11 verses later.

And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus.

Philippians 4:19

My God’s got this. I might be new to home ownership, but He’s not. He’ll help me steward this home well and I think He’ll grow me in the process because floors are fixable.

When Thanks isn’t Enough

Have you ever felt overwhelming gratitude, and saying “thank you” just didn’t seem adequate? That’s how I feel.

Why is thanksgiving so important? Thanksgiving is actually my favorite holiday and I’m very excited that we only have three months until it arrives! 🙂 Back to the point of this blog…Merriam-Webster defines thanksgiving as, “The act of giving thanks; a prayer expressing gratitude.” As I dwelled on this today, I decided to see how many verses in Scripture pertain to thanksgiving. I was surprised to discover that there are 146 verses. Here are a few.

Oh give thanks to the Lord, for he is good, for his steadfast love endures forever!

Psalm 107:1

Come, let us sing for joy to the Lord; let us shout aloud to the Rock of our salvation. Let us come before him with thanksgiving and extol him with music and song. For the Lord is the great God, the great King above all gods.

Psalm 95:1-3

Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.

1 Thessalonians 5:18

Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful.

Colossians 3:15

I will give thanks to the Lord with my whole heart; I will recount all of your wonderful deeds.

Psalm 9:1

Taking a hint from Psalm 9, I want to tell of the Lord’s wonderful deeds this week! If you’ve read any of my blogs, you’ve probably picked up on my hope of owning my own home. Tomorrow, I will officially be signing all the paperwork and getting the keys to my first home!

I’ve longed for my own place for years. I started doing research into buying a house last October. I actively started looking for a house to buy back in January. It has taken me seven months, several offers, and a little heartache (see blog from last month) to find this gem of a cottage. A bungalow built in the 1940s to be exact.

The Lord has clearly been in the middle of this process, from helping my realtor find this home right after it was renovated, to reconnecting with an old RN colleague who’s son did the inspection, to providing the financing, to placing a great team of people around me to walk with me in this process.

The next couple months will be busy as I move in, unpack, and set things up. But I wanted to take the time to sit in thankfulness to the Lord for what He has provided. May I always remember this thankfulness and not take this home for granted.

If you find yourself in the Benton area, you’re welcome to come by for some hot tea and a chat on my front porch. 🙂

Holding Space

I made an offer on a house this weekend. Not my first offer on a house, but I was pretty excited about this one. It pretty much had all of the things I was looking for. And in this housing market that is hard to find. I could feel my hopes lifting and I was starting to dream about what life would look like in that cute little space. Sadly, the owners went with another offer.

I’m discovering that house buying is a lot like looking for a job and buying a car. Stressful, hopeful, overwhelming, peaceful, disappointing, and learning to trust. I was definitely a mix of all of these emotions yesterday as I waited for word on my offer and then after I found out that my offer wasn’t accepted, but that I could be the back-up offer if I wanted.

As in most situations in my life, this got me thinking. Specifically about feeling more than one emotion at a time. I felt sad and defeated yesterday afternoon. I also felt peaceful that God was walking with me and I trusted that he had a plan. My first thought was that I shouldn’t feel sad if I was trusting the Lord’s timing. I instantly felt the Lord reminding me that it is OK to feel disappointment. It was even OK to cry. What wouldn’t be OK was losing sight of Him. Why did I think it was OK to only hang onto one emotion? Is it OK to feel more than one emotion at a time? I think when Christ was in the Garden of Gethsemane He modeled this.

Then Jesus went with them to a place called Gethsemane, and he said to his disciples, “Sit here, while I go over there and pray.” And taking with him Peter and the two sons of Zebedee, he began to be sorrowful and troubled. Then he said the them, “My soul is very sorrowful, even to death; remain here, and watch with me. And going a little farther he fell on his face and prayed, saying, “My Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me; nevertheless, not as I will, but as you will.

Matthew 26:36-39

I think this has become more evident to me as I’m processing through my grief over the loss of my dad. Some days I feel deeply sad and yet can find joy in a conversation with a friend. It’s an odd dynamic to hold space for two opposite feelings, but I’m learning that’s it’s OK to feel both.

If I give them space, I can process them and if necessary let them go. I took the time yesterday to be sad. I sat with the feeling. I talked with the Lord about them. I was able to walk through the sadness and let it go. What remained was my peace and trust that He has me. He has the perfect house for me. He walks with me when I’m sad about my dad.

It’s OK to hold space for more then one emotion at a time. What a freeing thought.